I’m 48 years old and my love is 50.
I live in Dallas and he lives in Phoenix.
We dated in high school just once on an actual date.
There’s a funny story behind that but I’ll share that in person.
When I was a freshman in high school I walked past the stairs
were all the bad boys would sit and apparently I gave a long stare to Mark
and he leapt off the stairs and fell in of me and asked me what my name was
… shortly after … we went on a date,
but we were not a couple of by any sense.
Mark was in a fatal car accident a few weeks later
where the other passenger died and he was the driver.
He was only 16 years old, life went into a spin and shortly after graduating
he moved to Phoenix where his sister lived.
We didn’t talk for 30 years nor did anybody really know where he was.
He got on Facebook and began friending several people including myself.
I reached out to him in a private message and
we began talking a little bit and
sharing what the last 30 years has brought us.
I was in a terrible marriage that was manipulative and long over.
My husband had filed finally, and Mark and I began sharing stories about
our marriages and our struggles.
He had been divorced for 6 years and was raising his children primarily.
I have two teenagers with my husband of 22 years and went to a final divorce
in December of this past year.
That marriage ended in a very violent dramatic way.
Needless to say,
as my relationship began with Mark my other had ended for sure.
In the short time that we’ve been close we’ve had struggles,
but the truth is we were falling deeper and deeper in love.
I know that I fell first because for a long time I would say to him
I love you I love you I love you… 3 times.
I wanted him to feel the same because I understood him,
and I couldn’t help but love this man.
The thing or the glue as you say that keeps Mark and I strong and optimistic
on a future is because we both know that we have such a deep love
and we know how to be good to one another because
we know what it feels like to be treated otherwise.
I find Mark very attractive so not only is my chemistry there with him
but my devotion to want to take care of him and let him take care of me.
It’s that balance that we’ve both been looking for.
So,
to some it’s the high school sweetheart story.
But we weren’t sweethearts in high school…
But we are now.
The next question is who’s moving.
Neither one of us feel we can move right now
I have two teenagers one in their senior and the other
in their sophomore year of high school and
a divorce decree that states I must stay here.
But I want to be here for them.
Mark has two teenage daughters that live with him and a 10 ten-year-old Son
that lives with his mom.
I want you to know that we won’t be exchanging Rings right now we
we are reserving that for the day that we both can being under the same roof.
It may come sooner but
it’s likely to be 3 years from now when my daughter graduates.
I have a beautiful ring that he gave me as a promise to love me and not let go.
And he has a band that he wears from when I asked him to hold on and not let go.
So,
I’m not sure how that would fit into a ceremony so
I thought you might need to know that the day that we come together
and live together will be when we have a ring Exchange.
Perhaps it’ll be back in Maui
😉
A Luv Story Blessing – Born After Falling At Her Feet
So, it was… waay back as a freshman gal in high school,
Alyson must have made an impression on one of the ‘bad boys’
where they would hang out by the stairs…
Mark caught a glimpse of his destiny and leapt from the stairs
and totally ‘fell’ for Alyson.
The Grace of the Universe Blessed you with a peek of
what True Love looks like…
The fulfillment of that love would take Divine Patience.
1st Corinthians states… “Love is Kind, Love is Patientâ€
Everything that has happened… Had to.
Not until the time is right… can it be so.
And so it is,
with Divine resonance that you have moved Heaven and Earth
to Transcend the lessons of life through the school of Hard Knocks…
And stand together in this oasis of beauty
to finally unite in the Glory of True Love.
From the burned-out wreckage of unfulfilled past relationships…
A new Love grows out of the ashes… like the poetic Phoenix bird …
You have found the salvation of Love from those ashes and can now
soar high over your hearts dreams…
as Love Birdz together forever more.
You are now Blessed with the Grace of
Being at One with Each Other!
This is a Divine Taste of the ultimate goal of Spirit…
The fulfillment of our Spiritual Path and return to the Bliss
of Being at One with it All.
But Heaven & Nirvana can wait…
For you now have the Blessings of a long lifetime cradled in the arms of Love.
Enjoy the Sacred Bliss of Being at One with Each other…
No matter if you are in the deepest embrace of love together…
Or 1000’s of miles apart… or even… beyond…
Close your eyes, open your heart and Soul…
Soon you will lose track of when “you†end…
And your Soulmate begins.
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Luv Story Update…
We were perfect. That was our song. He was my second chance
and I would be honored to have our blissful love story shared through your vision.
Alyson
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In life… there are no certainties…
Impermanence is a natural part of our short existence on this Journey.
No matter how long or short our ride is here…
Ether way… it’s just a blink in the eye of Eternity…
which is our True Nature.
We are not our bodies… but yet,
All the elements, energies and space dust that were a part of
what we spend time considering ‘ourselves’ to be…
never goes away…
our bodies just transform into other forms…
Our True Eternal Nature is not limited to just the elements
that make up our material body…
“we†are formless and Eternal…
Never born, nor will ever ‘die’.
As our body is made up of the elements of this world
and even the universe…
Our True Nature is inseparable from all that “Isâ€â€¦
Some call that ‘God’, Divinity, Grace…
The best way to describe what our True Nature feels like is…
Love.
Love is not an object of material nature…
Therefore,
Love can never be destroyed.
Our True Nature is Love…
It feels like Bliss and Joy…
Yet,
It remains ineffable… words can’t adequately describe it but …
Our True Being can never be lost.
Each time you gaze at natural beauty…
Know that Mark is inseparable from you and the rays of the sun.
Inseparable from you,
And the sparkle of a dew drop on a morning flower.
Every time you see natural beauty…
You are experiencing the Eternal Nature of our True Being…
We are the un-dying aspect of Love, Joy, Bliss…
With that,
You can abide in the Equanimity that keeps an even keel balance
to all the ups & downs of life.
