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A Commitment Ceremony
Is a Marriage of True Love that recognizes the Eternal Being in each other
A Union of Soul Mates
Not a pesky Bureaucratic Formality
In this day and age
There is much less obligatory, authority mandated, pressures to marry.
If you are fairly young or somewhat unsure or… really sensible…
Consider a Commitment Ceremony at the completion of your Course
To commit your Love to your Love
It does not need to be a
‘Trinity’ with you, your love and big brother....
Along with this ménage à trois... there will be the
Litany of Litigious Lawyers Lurking beyond the Lifelines Lying in wait..
We are no longer required to
‘Fornicate Under the Consent of the King’…
In other words,…
The Government Does Not need to know who we are currently in love with.
The whole guidance course, wedding and life ...will go on exactly the same.
The only difference is one single marriage license form filled out on-line.
At some point,
A couple should bring to Awareness
The Core reasons to get legally married...
and perhaps consider a
There are countless reasons to get married...
There are virtues and pitfalls
To the reasons how each couple feels about
Why They Truly Want To Get "Legally" Married
The Emerging Tier of Human Developmental Growth
are on the cusp of
~ Personal Awakening ~
They have grown to the leading edge of society
and now are Naturally inclined towards a Spiritual-ness…
A key factor of
is the ability to
‘Be’ in the moment.
In ‘this’ moment, a life together is fulfilling
Later down the Road of Life…
The ever present moment may bring uncharted directions to pursue
for Inspirations we can’t see currently.
To Limit one’s self with the huge burdens legally required to
buy yourself out of a 'legally' binding commitment
Quite the unnecessary expense of wasted time and money
If the heart is just not in it anymore
There should be a natural conclusion to move on…
Not a new car’s worth of Lawyer fees and court costs.
The societal trend is towards more couples choosing the path of
A Commitment Ceremony
Have a simply Enchanting Romantic Maui Beach Commitment Ceremony with
Professional Photography that expertly captures the
‘Ever Present Moment’
The highly elated auras of Love…
Just Like a 'Legal' Wedding!
But A Lot Less Stressful!!
~ ~ ~ ~
Not 100 % sure you are really completely ready to tie the knot?
Are you one that really wants to
Show your Commitment Sincerely,
If You are fully engaged in projects and
Big Life Changes
Perhaps you would prefer to wait until the 'dust of Life'
Settles a wee bit more…
then there’s that …
Seven Year Itch Thingy…
Consider a Commitment Ceremony
Just Like a "Legal" Wedding...
With an Enchanting Ceremony on a Dreamy Maui Beach...
with a nice dress, Flowers & all…
Have some Heartfelt Emotional Ceremony Photography
and Romantic Poses on a breath taking Maui Beach
Enjoy a romantic laid back Maui Honeymoon…
This is every bit as Loving and Real as
a government sanctioned wedding...
With-OUT the complications
A Love that is Commited with 'No Strings Attached'
Is Far and Beyond More Meaningful than one based on a
Fear of God, the 'In-Laws' or Legal Fees
The Integration of Two True Loves
Celebrating their Journey Together down the
'Ever Present Momenmts' of Life
The Ultimate Lovers Surprize!
Marriage they say, ‘Is an Institution’
Guys OR Gals
That want to ‘pop the question’
‘Reasonable Doubt’ of a positive outcome
Confidently skip the Awkward question all together
Announce their love to their beloved
in a Heartfelt Commitment Ceremony
Be the Ultimate Romantic!
You can confidently organize a super Romantic situation where…
You Slyly mention to your Sweetie that you have
Arranged a Romantic Photo session on the beach
You stroll along a Dreamy Maui Beach
and come across an Enchanting Harp Player
With the Professional Photographer as promised…
You join the shoot in progress and get placed into well light and contrasted positions…
Yea, That’s Ticket! “Photo session” stuff…
We then ‘spin a tall tail’ about the guy that just happens to have a nice conch shell and ‘agreed to the photographer’s request for a photo opportunity…’
After a few seriously silly shots…
This “Guy” starts to a weave some “Hawaiian Story Talk” …
about this shell and his Sailing Adventures
Then the “Story” becomes a Love story in which
You & your ‘surprised’ honey are the main feature.
The Conch shell blesses the union of two Blessed Souls in True Love
Lei’s are exchanged,
Blessings are bestowed … and Off you go to a romantic honeymoon
that will make your dreams sizzle for a lifetime to come.
Come back in a year or so
and “Dot the I’s… with a ‘legally filed ceremony’, if so desired
Just take your Sweetie to Maui again for a
Re- Commitment Ceremony
There are endless Alternatives to make Your Big Surprize a Big Hit!
One that was created a very long time ago
for various reasons that made perfect sense to
those that were part of that old world view.
Historically, in most cultures,
Married women had very few rights of their own,
being considered, along with the family's children,
the property of the husband
They could not own or inherit property,
or represent themselves legally
A lot of these ‘Non-Equanimeous’ perspectives have been Transcended…
Another big step up
In the evolution of human developmental stage growth is
From these old world views
To less ' Myth' based Spirituality
The Individually fulfilling Personal connection to Spirit
for a lot of people,
They are stuck in a ‘traditional’' Spiritual rut
~ Dukkha ~
Points out this is the core reason for
The downside of ‘traditions’
it keeps a lot of Progressive Higher Perspectives
Way back ‘when’…
No specific ritual was prescribed for celebrating a marriage:
"Marriage vows did not have to be exchanged in a church,
nor was a priest's presence required.
A couple could exchange consent anywhere, anytime."
Decrees on marriage of the Council of 1563
made the validity of marriage dependent upon
the wedding taking place before a priest and two witnesses
Thus establishing the Doctrines of Church
that took 'Control' over
The Inspirations of Creative Wholeness
Tend to Trend Things Upward Towards
Embrace and more Integration of Many Perspectives...
41 percent of first marriages end in divorce.
60 percent of second marriages end in divorce.
73 percent of third marriages end in divorce.
~ Don’t become a ‘Negative Stat’ ~
Personally Fulfilling Marital Enlightenment Guidance
Traditionally the sacred union of Love
has been a religious based ceremony that combines the
Love from the Heart and the Depth of one’s Soul
People have the intrinsic inspiration
To express their deepest expressions of Love
to not only their ‘Love’ and loved ones…
but especially to the ‘Divinity’ as they resonate with
You now are Blessed with the choice in choosing
The most important part of being a Human…
One’s Higher Calling...
Your personal path of growth, a Spiritual connectedness to
the Divinity within your own True Nature…
A balanced perspective of abiding in a Bliss
that is not affected by materialistic drama
Sometime after the 1960’s,
we slowly started toward a path of personal inquiry
Feeling a bit like a Spiritual experience, as perceived in
the deepening of understanding in
finding and Abiding in one’s ‘center’
A connectiveness arises that seems to
Resonate with ‘the Ground of our Being’
An inspiration becomes envisioned to pursue a path to
Integrate Mind, Body and Spirit…. To understand ourselves more
and our place in the ‘timeless wonder of it all’
Along each step of this Path, we gain the experience of our True Nature
The more in touch we are with our ‘center’… or True Nature…
The less we are vulnerable to the inherent pain and suffering resulting from
the ignorance of our True Nature and disconnection from our ‘center’
When we can find the space to calm our body, quite our mind and
Rest with Awareness in the empty spaciousness of our Being…
Joy, Compassion, Unconditional Love and Equanimity arises naturally
No matter where you are along your Path, just being Aware of
the Inspiration to Stride along towards the next stepping stone of personal Insights…
That in itself is a Blessing
Those so Blessed will naturally be compelled to integrate their Spiritual Inspirations with a ceremony from the Heart and Soul by
a Spiritual Minister that is
Deeply connected to a personal Practice of Higher Consciousness
I create one of a kind ceremony that resonates with your Luv Story
and connects deeply with your personal Spiritual Insights and asperations
I invite you to send along your Luv Story…
What first attracted each of you… and what was the ‘glue’ that made it stick
Any challenges that had to be overcome that ultimately
made your love and appreciation stronger.
Goals as a couple, Personal goals… professional goals… and
Spiritual goals insights and Inspirations…
Describe your Spiritual Practice
or include inspiring words from Saints and Sages…
A common concern for most Spiritual traditions, particularly Buddhism
is an appreciation of the present moment
The most meaningful experiences in our lives
Can only occur in the ever-present moment
The Four Tibetan Immeasurable Virtues of
Unconditional Love, Joy, Compassion and Equanimity
can only arise
if we are not distracted from the present
The way to enjoy Eternal Marital Bliss…Is to
Be fully present and content in the Ever-Present Moment
Be Here Now!
and enjoy a Deeply Meaningful relationship of
Unconditional-Love and Spiritual Awareness
Engaging in A Better Understanding of
the Most Important Person in Your World
~ YOURSELF ~
When you can Calm your Heavily Distracted Mind
And Truly take the time to ‘Look Within’…
You will experience the ability to
~ Give Love ~
on a Simple yet Powerfully Deep and Natural level.
The Spiritual Connection of Two True Loves that
Grow through this Spiritual process together
has countless profound benefits.
Even though each will have their totally Individual
Perspectives, Dreams, Goals, Professional Paths...
Sharing this most Intrinsic, Deeply Embedded Connection
to the Spirit Within...
Carries a couple blissfully along the 'Path of Life'
Freed from the mental pain and suffering most couples
Unnecessarily put themselves through otherwise.
One that ‘practices’ Is naturally attracted to
Perpetuating a Calm ‘Witnessing’ perspective…
Not likely to allow
Out of control Egos and Emotions to drive their lives
Most other couples
Tend let their egos and emotions rule their life
Causing them to fly into a rage or an argument over
completely trivial and pointless reactions
Attempting to defend their fragile egos from
‘perceived’ threats to their vanity…
A staggering number of marriages have hit the rocks
by issues as mindless as
Not returning the lid to the toothpaste
Soon it’s a battle of egos…
Which reinforce the Magnitude of the Egos,
Inflating them to
Bigger than Life Proportions…
When it’s typically something as silly as
the ‘lid to the toothpaste’.
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