We talked for months before we went out,
and getting to know one another on a daily basis
from just messaging one another,
really pointed out how much we have in common.
It’s crazy how much we think alike.
We have overcome so many obstacles.
We were first told we shouldn’t be together,
and I knew what was right,
and we stuck by each other’s side.
The glue that has stuck us together,
I would have to say is honesty.
We have so much trust in our relationship,
there is no such thing as “worrying”.
I love that we can trust one another,
and still do the things we love,
with or without each other…. but at the end of the day,
we want to be a part of any exciting adventure we come across.
“Great minds think a like” really speak volumes for us 🙂
Tommy has a way about him
that makes you want to better yourself.
He has so much determination
and works so hard for what he wants.
I swear, our relationship was built from so many obstacles,
and what doesn’t kill us,
only makes us stronger:)
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A Luv Story Blessing Built On Trust
Started their relationship in a Noble way.
While most dive right into a surface only physical distraction,
Only to realize they have nothing to talk about the next morning…
Talking to each other for months
before they ever went out on a date,
Assured that True Love was building upon
the commonalities they both share.
Enlightened Sages state that:
Everything that has happened… Had to.
There is a perfection in everything that ‘Is’.
There is Grace and Divinity in every pain in the arse challenge,
Yet,
Without these challenges that inspire us to rise above it,
There would be no way to
Transcend to a Deeper person of Higher Consciousness.
We gain the confidence that we can overcome obstacles
that seem more than we can handle at the time.
By way of example,
we inspire others to succeed and prosper as well.
Honesty is a Virtue both Ashley & Tommy share also
This intrinsically creates a dependable Trust.
Trust creates a space of Loving Kindness
in which ‘Worry’ has no place.
A wise sage in a Harry Potter movie stated:
“Don’t Worry! You’ll only suffer twice”
:-O
A relationship built on transcended challenges
will ultimately have rewards that are
beyond the wealth of money or the concepts of words
It will feel like Bliss… Like when,
Your baby says mommy or daddy for the 1st time,
Or they take their first step
Do good in school
Graduate from college
Call with news that you will soon be Grandparents …
Hard won Gratitude and Appreciation will also feel like Bliss…
With each breath of fresh air, each awesome sunset,
every single moment will have the beauty of perfection in all that ‘Is’.
Gee – it sure would be swell by golly…
If we could count on a rosy time in life that
everything was without challenges.
But…
As much as one can
hope, pray, meditate or mumble a mantra that would somehow
change the entire space-time continuum that we observe to be reality…
to magically bend to our grasping clinging
hopes, fears and desires for our version of perfection…
Most folks tend to take this rout
Which only deepens the pain and suffering further
While Ashley & Tommy here don’t just survive…
They Thrive!
Challenges will always be there…
The only thing we can change is our attitude towards life,
With the ‘Right Perspectives’
one sees the perfection in the ever-present moment.
By experiencing the perfection of everything that ‘Is’,
Creates a Reality of Pure Bliss.
Do this together, in love with the ever-present moment…
And you will have Eternal Marital Bliss.
May you always have what you need within to stay alive & Thrive,
Get ‘er dun and become stronger physically and Spiritually.
