A Luv Story Born from an Accidental Tinder Moment

That wonderful app called Tinder.

Cindy swiped right and Amy tried to swipe left and

accidentally swiped right.

Amy was afraid of all the children Cindy had.

Lucky for her she accidentally swiped right.

The universe had something else in mind.

We started talking frequently through text

and the connection became real.

Immediately we planned our first date together.

We had originally planned to meet at gay pride

however we couldn’t wait.

The connection was too strong so….

that Thursday before pride, Cindy came over to my house,

and we jumped each other’s bones.

Cindy was in love and Amy was scared to death.

Amy had no intentions of falling for anyone at all.

She had just got out of a bad marriage and wanted to

date a ton of people and play the field.

Again,

the universe had something else in mind.

But yet,

the next morning Amy took Cindy out to breakfast

and broke the news that they would just be friends.

During gay pride that upcoming weekend,

Cindy stayed with Amy due to her living so far away.

It didn’t take long before our first date repeated itself.

❤️

So of course,

a series of ups and downs came like a tidal wave because

Amy did not want a relationship!

Finally,

after spending many months talking on the phone,

many social visits, and both dating other people,

we made the decision to exclusively date each other.

So,

every other week when Cindy didn’t have her kids

she would come and spend the week with Amy.

Amy fell in love with Cindy’s musical skills…

her voice is like a soothing sound that speaks to Amy’s soul,

she has this light hearted childlike spirit, authentic loving ways,

beautiful opinions, funny personality, awkward neediness,

especially when she’s trying to be cool….lol! ,

work ethic, her willingness to communicate, and

her beautiful mothering qualities.

Cindy loves Amy because she’s funny, brilliant, easy-going, enjoyed life,

nurturing, kind, thoughtful, beautiful, strong, passionate,

preserves the humanitarian aspects of the world,

authentic, true, virtuous and most of all,

Cindy loves how Amy is filled with so much light and understanding.

When Amy’s heart speaks,

Cindy’s heart listens.

Cindy loves that they have this deep powerful connection

and can talk together for hours,

but that it’s never enough.

Cindy absolutely cherishes every moment they have together.

Cindy often daydreams about growing old with Amy

and feels it is an honor and privilege to be her wife

and life companion forever.

Our relationship is so easy,

no fighting, no drama, and so much love.

How could we do anything other than choose happiness?

Life this easy should be cherished and protected.

So Cindy and Amy had a dilemma,

how could they be together all the time with Cindy living so far away?

We made the decision to fully commit.

Cindy’s kids would be faced with the choice of

moving with her or staying with their father primarily.

Either way we were determined to be together.

Either way we knew our happiness was a special gift

given to us both from the universe.

We could not ignore this path.

We are both looking forward to spending our lives laughing in bed,

connecting spiritually, emotionally, and physically.

We truly enjoy each other’s company and are excited about our future.

We are supportive with each other’s dreams, ambitions, and needs.

We value each other‘s opinions and work together to find homeostasis.

We both feel so lucky to have found each other

and even luckier to have recognized our need to be together.

Aloha and Mahalo.

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A Luv Story Blessing – Born from an Accidental Tinder Moment

They “Tendered” their relationship online…

Which is really a wise way to go.

How many countless eons would it take to meet one’s Soulmate in bar

Amy had a natural fear of engaging so quickly with Cindy’s kids…

Most would agree, that is a commitment not to take lightly…

But with time and understanding Amy must have learned a lot about Cindy,

Her kids, and most importantly… about herself.

Life has unexpected ways to teach us about ourselves.

In the highest Spiritual practices… ‘Self-Realization’ is the key

to end the pain and suffering we all feel

from the inherent ignorance of our True Self.

It is intriguing how often fear becomes the door to our Transcendence.

When two true Soulmates meet,

there is an unstoppable attraction of hearts.

The urge to connect so fully, that when we

Close our eyes, open our Hearts & Souls…

We soon lose track of where ‘we’ end…

and our Soulmate begins.

A Hug can’t seem tight enough…

a long kiss can’t seem long enough…

Hearts are quenched with love, yet hunger – forever more…

for more

Cindy’s music played the heart stings to Amy’s soul…

Together these becomes a musical soundtrack of Love.

Soulmates not only have an unstoppable physical attraction…

There is also, and perhaps even more endearing,

Is the ease in which communication seems to fulfill each other.

So many unfulfilled souls have no one to really to connect with,

Which explains why so many spend so much just to talk to a shrink…

Soulmates save heaps just talking with each other.

Fears and challenges, we never knew are dissipated

long before they can ever surface.

Dreams and creative fulfillment bubbles to the surface,

Compassion and loving kindness for each other is preeminent.

We all grow old, most of us fear this and dread it’s coming…

But knowing you have a Soulmate to share this experience

Becomes quite liberating.

Growing old together becomes an exciting journey

to the Deeper Wisdoms that indeed come with the experience of age.

All of those around you both will feel the glow of the love you have for each other.

They will naturally feel a peace and comfort to be within that sacred circle of love.

A love that is exponentially larger than the sum of its parts.

The miracle of love attracts love…

Love begets Love.

You feel lucky… and so you should.

So many souls live their entire life without finding such True Love…

Realizing this Love is like…

a ripple on the pond of life…

It radiates with ever growing circles of Love.

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The Start of 2020

Our business was doing great, but we still couldn’t afford to buy a house or a condo. Renting in Maui for another 30 years was not an option we wanted to take. Then, Bobbie Jo suggested we buy a sailboat that is comfortable to cruise and live in. By the end of January, we started looking for our new home.

After a long search, we found our dream boat in Mazatlan, Mexico. COVID-19 was not yet a concern when our boat hunt began, but masks were starting to appear at airports by the time we flew to Mazatlan. Originally, we had planned to get the boat ready as fast as possible to cover a full calendar for the busy wedding season. However, it was apparent our business was going to tank amid the pandemic, and the struggle went on until the end of the year.

Luckily, we scored an awesome condo for only $19 a day at Mazatlan. On the 10th day of our stay, we received the news that all harbors will be closed the next Monday morning. We thought we’d be stuck in Mexico longer, but another sailor advised us to leave before sunrise.

We felt the adrenalin of escaping the Mexican harbor master just before the sun rose that faithful day. The seas were rough as waves were building up in the tight channel that led us to the open ocean. We ended up anchored off an adorable little isle just a mile offshore. We enjoyed cruising to many spectacular anchorages and cute villages on our way to Puerto Vallarta, where we would depart for Maui on May 7. On May 30, 2020, we completed our 24-day passage from Mexico to Maui.