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The first thing that attracted me to Rhiza was her laugh and smile.
What’s made us stick this last 16 years (10 married)
is our belief in our Love and each other.
Like other relationships and people,
insecurities sometime can make you question each other and yourself.
We always come out of any disagreement or misunderstanding
a better team with more appreciation and love.
As for goals,
our #1 goal is for our 2 beautiful kids to grow up in an environment full of
love and encouragement.
Them growing up happy, and maybe more importantly great human beings.
We both believe in Spirit.
We’ve been on the receiving end of blessings and miracles in our lives.
We know without doubt there is a higher power for us to recognize and appreciate.
We don’t have Religious sensitivities but do resonate more with Spirituality.
This is my Luv Story.
What first attracted me to him was his genuine kindness.
He has always made me feel safe, loved and comforted.
The glue that has made us stick is… him.
By always believing in us and being my best friend.
My husband and I have been together 16 years and married 10 years.
The biggest blessing and what also can be a challenge in our relationship
is that we have grown up together.
Growing up together has the challenge of growing up as an individual.
We have overcome this challenge by communication.
We have been more vocal about our feelings
and we always try to find the best solution for every situation.
This helps us better understand each other
and helps us appreciate each other even more.
My goals as a couple is just to continue being best friends,
keep supporting, comforting, motivating and loving each other forever.
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A Luv Story Blessing Born with a Laugh and a Smile
Orlando was first attracted by Rhiza’s laugh & smile.
Indeed, these gifts are the best medicine for the dynamics of life.
Rhiza was first attracted by Orlando’s genuine kindness, and
the feeling of being safe, loved and comforted.
This is Team Marital Bliss.
In the view of Spirit, we are inseparable from Divine perfection.
During our Path, we are all challenged, sometimes to exhaustion.
To find solace in the cradle of each other’s love
is how we re-charge our Being with the inspiration to Be our best,
which inspires all others around you to Be their best…
This positive flow of energy,
manifests like a Ripple on the Pond of Life…
The morals, virtues and Pono, which naturally form your True Nature,
along with spontaneously expressing to your children – Unconditional
Love, Joy, Compassion with Equanimity…
These essential traits of Humanity will indeed build
from a ripple on a pond, to a huge wave of Transcendence …
Increasing in ever-expanding circles of embrace …
Creating a more & more sensible and loving place for our
children’s, children’s children…
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Conflicts that arise in life that cause any of our egos or emotions to feel…
‘harshed’,
are often caused by another set of influencing egos & emotions.
It feels like insecurities but is always just plain confusion.
When two people are both confused… our egos and reactive emotions
tend to take over the course of our actions.
As you have found,
communication is the best remedy for confusion.
This brings you back to your True Nature.
Our True Nature is Bliss… a contentment.
Be in love with what ‘Is’, and you will abide in the Bliss of your True Nature.
Experience the perfection of what ‘Is’, in the ever-present moment
And you will always experience
Eternal Maui Marital Bliss
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