
Ernest:
We met at a Legion and Lorraine was on the dance floor with a mutual friend
and I saw that and went in cut in and looked at Lorraine and said,
“who are you”?
That is our instant connection?!?!
I disappeared for a few days and finally called Lorraine and asked
if she wanted to go to the Symphony of Lights with me and shockingly,
she agreed?!?!



It was us sitting in my truck, drinking a slurppy from 7/11
and talking for hours.
We became very close quickly and to my surprise
very honest I was about my history.
I told her that I was a recovering drug addict
and Lorraine stayed by my side.
We have had our ups and downs throughout the last 10 years
but I believe we have gotten stronger together.
I have told Lorraine that she saved my life.
Something that my own kids and at the time one grandson couldn’t do…
as I was in my dark place.
Since then Lorraine has gone through a lot at work
where I would support Lorraine
and then she would support all that I was doing with my work
as I was climbing the corporate ladder.



Lorraine also has allowed me the time and space to go school
and get my master’s degree while working,
so I wasn’t always available for her, and now I am applying for another job
that takes more of my time (CAO).
Lorraine has been my life support, cheerleader and love of my life for the past 10 years
and I am so looking forward to us spending the rest of our lives together
and learning more about each other.
Lorraine:
Here is our story:



We met 10 years ago on a dance floor introduced by a mutual friend.
Our first date was watching fireworks and talking for hours.
Although we are opposite in many ways, something kept drawing us together.
We have gone through tough times,
but have moved passed and learned from these experiences
and gotten stronger as a couple.
Now I can’t imagine my life without you.
You absolutely changed my life and with you I always feel loved and supported.
We share a love of Hawaii and I am so happy to be marrying there.
Thank you Roger I look forward to meeting you
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A Luv Story Blessing That Saved His Life
Meeting on that dance floor is a true case of ‘Love at first sight’.
Ernie didn’t need to wait for his brain to think it through,
He spontaneously cut right in… the rest was… Meant to Be.
Actions from the heart have a way of manifesting in the ’now moment’.
While our monkey mind has a way to cause ‘paralysis by analysis’.
There must have been a ‘Luv potion’ in that 7/11 slurppy…
Talking heart to heart for hours…
Falling in love from the Ground of your Beings,
As opposed of just the surface only aspects
that tend to lead only to a shallow connection.



Beauty is only skin deep; the heart is much deeper…
And the soul is ineffably deeper still.
You have found that Blessing that connects your Heart, Mind, Body and Soul
Into an experience of Love that only two true loves can abide in.
Honesty right up front from the start is indeed a good investment.



In deep spirit, it is realized that we are born perfect…
Then life come along
and challenges us in ways that veils our Divine perspectives…
When we believe our monkey mind thoughts of how tough it is…
We then spiral down into a dark place and soon desperately seek a way out
with what seems to be the ‘medicine’ we need.



When all we really need is Love, Compassion, Joy and understanding.
Life is full of ups & downs…
When we overcome the challenges, we learn, grow and transcend to a
Higher, Wider, Deeper place.
These challenging experiences become the Wisdoms gained
by pushing through it with the
‘Right Mindfulness, the ‘Right Speech’, the ‘Right actions’ and ‘Right Effort’.
These virtues are some of the Noble Paths towards our creative fulfillment.
The essence of our True Nature is Bliss,
There is no material substance to our Bliss…
Therefore, it cannot be affected by materialist concerns…
Unless we let them.


Be Mindful of the ups & downs as they come & go…
See the perfection in all that “Is” and
experience your Blissful contentedness in the ever-present moment.
Do this together and you will both abide in
Eternal Maui Marital Bliss.
❤️


