Maui is for Lovers
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Luv Stories of Maui Marital Bliss
Our story starts back in Virginia when we were kids.
We met because our dads were work friends.
Both of our families moved in separate directions,
Edgar’s to Florida when he was 6
and my family to Oregon when I was 7.
We both retained no memory of each other as we grew up.
At 18 we reconnected through a mutual friend,
re-learned of one another and became fast friends.
We kept our long-distance friendship with the help of social media
and went to visit each other once as a surprise for Edgar’s 21st birthday
and again in 2015 when Edgar came to visit me in Oregon.
His visit to come see me was one of the best vacations I’d ever had.
We explored the wonderful sites that Oregon has to offer,
and I helped Edgar fall in love with this beautiful state,
little did I know that he was also falling for me.
Edgar opened my eyes to the type of relationship I wanted
and had never had,
one where you stay up late talking and laugh til your crying
and sing in the car
without worrying about what the other person thinks
but just about having a good time and being yourself.
Edgar helped me see all the red flags I had in the relationship
I was in at the time
which quickly led to me ending that relationship a week after he left.
After Edgar returned back to Florida, he ended up letting me know that he liked me
and would move to Oregon for me.
He confessed that on the last night of his trip he had called a friend
confessing to them that he had feelings for me but was in a
predicament of me being in a relationship.
With all the fun we were having and all the conversations
he realized he was falling for me.
I had an attraction to Edgar from the first time we re-met,
we always got along great, the guy is a sweetheart and
he’s incredibly handsome, but when he told me he liked me
it came as such a shock.
I learned that he’s had the same type of feelings in the past for me,
but it was never the right time.
He had been completely respectful of the current relationship I was in at the time of his visit that I didn’t expect him to say the words he did.
That month was a blur of me figuring out what I was going to say and do
when all along I knew the answer was that I was falling for him too.
We were committed to each other very quickly and from afar
Edgar made me feel like the most special girl in the world.
There was no lack of long-distance phone calls and video conversations
which in turn reassured Edgar he was making the right decision every day.
Each day I learned more of Edgar, the more I fell in love with him.
The love I felt for Edgar and from Edgar was unlike any other feeling I’d ever had.
I had a friend tell me during that time “when you know, you know.”
And I knew.
We saw each other once during Christmas,
our halfway point between the 5 months
that would pass before Edgar would be moving to Oregon.
During that weeklong vacation I learned how hard saying goodbye would be
and the thought of waiting 3+months felt like an eternity.
It took everything for me to focus on the planning process for our 10-day road trip
to move Edgar to Oregon.
Edgar picked up his life with no question of what may happen in our new relationship
with feelings so strong that he’d never felt before that he knew he wanted to take that
big leap of faith.
Now if anything would test a new relationship it would be a 10-day road trip.
Amazingly enough we conquered that road trip
(including me being incredibly sick during the first 3 days)
which lead to us conquering living together as a new couple.
We’ve had our ups and downs as any other relationship would
but we have learned so much about each other in the last 3+years together
and have learned how to communicate through the hard times.
Edgar and I know that we would not and could not do life with anyone else.
We knew from the start that we were each other’s forever.
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A Luv Story Blessing That Started as Kids
Everything that has happened…. Had to.
The ineffable series of coincidences of life
that led your fathers to work together briefly…
Allowing you two to cosmically bump into each other,
Too young to have any idea how your life’s Paths would come full circle
into the cradle of love set in motion from those first innocent days.
Sure, love can be found at a bar or online…
But when you have the ‘inside connection’,
A depth of resonance is felt from the Ground of our Being.
To connect at first with someone on a level of sincere empathy
for the pure interest in that person’s Being,
allows each other to see the whole person,
Instead of falling in love with ‘surface only’ aspects
inspired by too many drinks at a bar…
True Love is deeper than just surface only attractions,
The Heart is even deeper, and the Soul is ineffably deeper still…
You have found that communication is key to understanding…
It sounds simple, but yet our egos tend to make it a challenge.
Most of us are too hung up on our mistaken identity of our egos
to be humble enough to even listen to anyone else…
or even our own Inner voice of reason.
You have humbled your egos and Transcended into
the Natural Essence of Bliss – that is our True Nature.
Go with this flow… if it feels right… It was meant to be.
If you find you are ever sliding away from your natural Divine Bliss…
Take a deep breath and reconnect with the
Love, Joy, Compassion and Equanimity
that creates our Divine Flow.
Experience the perfection in every moment, do this together…
And you will both Abide in Eternal Maui Marital Bliss
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You knew from the start that you were each other’s forever.
You came to Maui, put your toes in the sand
and made it so… forevermore…& More!
