About Us

Laid back, Local and Loveable Experts
in Hawaii Weddings

We’re your Organically Grown 

One Stop Mom & Pop Luv Shop!

At Maui Marrying Man

we have extensive resources of wedding wisdoms, like: 

marriage license, Hair & Make up, Photography, Video,  location scouting… 

and much more! 

We are young at heart, adventurous and musically inclined, 

Offering our personally connected and 

Universally Spiritual Enlightened Insights to all our ceremonies 

Showing true compassion and a connectivity towards 

uniting couples in the most sacred of all unions.

A man steering a boat, smiling and relaxed.
A green decorative symbol with a central flame-like design.

We bring together the

Soul of the South Pacific with the

Spirit of Aloha

to Unite couples in the

Deepest Expression of Love

What Sets Us Apart

A heart-shaped lei held by two people at a wedding.

We have a Lifetime of Spreading Marital Bliss 

from all over LA to the South Pacific 

including the tiny Atoll ‘Suwarrow’ in the Cooks Islands 

and over 14 years here on Maui. 

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Our natural free Spirit and universal Unconditional Love 

allows us to treat all couples as our New Best Friends. 

Our extensive professional and worldly experience translates to 

a confidence which is instilled to our couples so that they can 

relax, ‘Hang Loose’, and fully enjoy every moment of their 

Romantic Tropical Island beach wedding starting with the first contact… 

all the way to the Honey Moon

This is an inspiring collection of True-Life Luv Stories  

from some of the couples that we’ve “Maui’d”.  

I include my Luv story Blessings  

based on a lifetime of Deep Spiritual Practice  

and inspired by their personal Love Story.  

The photos that go along with their Love Stories 

tells their story in high-definition beauty  

that will bring your Heart, Soul and True Love 

to the shores of Paradise.  

Buy all 4 volumes today 

and  Let these romantic expressions of Love 

inspire your own Dreams of Maui Marital Bliss 

on our Tropical Island Paradise.

This book takes into account my  

lifetime of personal and Spiritual inquiry. 

The conclusions of my lifetime of spiritual philosophies 

and the personal life practices that are 

just basic common sense  

yet offer a liberation from the heaps of 

pain and suffering we are all inherently challenged with 

in the course of our lifetimes.


This will help you make sense of a seemingly senseless world

Every being created will inherently ponder 

What is the meaning of their life?…

What is my place or purpose in this life?… 

These philosophic questions 

along with a better understanding of 

the ineffable nature of Grace, Divinity… 

and what you call “God”

are answered by pointing a ‘Way’ toward an ‘Inner Journey 

that will help you ‘Realize’ these Wisdoms 

by your own experience. 


I have an Extensive Resource of

~ Essential Wedding Wisdoms ~

That cover all the bases from:

Photography – Videography – Location Scouting

To:

Helpful tips for your Tropical Island

Beach Wedding on Maui

Just Click to view all the articles

Those so inclined will find heaps of Wisdoms for

Personal Growth and Enlightenment.

Through these extensive in-depth

and

Inspiring Spiritual Insights…

Learn to meditate and create a ‘road map’

to fulfill your Live’s Journey on a

Personal and Spiritual Path…

Everything one needs to fully understand

what it means to lead a Spiritual Life.

By obtaining the ‘Right’ perspective

in which one can find

Peace, Love, Joy, Bliss, and Happiness

in non-materialist ways…

 

Will bring about the

Boundless Eternal Happiness 

that is our inherent Nature

Which is so close…

Yet,

So far removed from the way

most of us are are brought up.

Those that are inspired to follow

such a path will never be challenged by

ego driven marital issues. 

Each step along such a ‘Path’

deepens one’s natural compassion

and Loving Kindness, the perfect recipe for

Eternal Maui Marital Bliss

 

~ Please Note ~

This has nothing to do with any form of

religion’.

But yet,

even open minded ‘religious’ people can 

find ‘salvation’… In This Life

Without the need to die first and possibly go 

to a man made up imaginary place. 

These perspectives of ‘Higher Consciousness‘ is not for everyone. 

This is only for

open minded Seekers

of a better Way

If you are content with taking someone else’s naive version for Grace & Divinity 

instead of learning and understanding it yourself by experience…

You may only resonate with a simple ‘mythic-literal’ approach 

 

Click now for

Inspiring Spiritual Insights

Traditionally – the sacred union of Marriage

is a Spiritually based ceremony

that combines the Love from the Heart

and the Depth of one’s Soul.

People have the intrinsic inspiration 

to express their deepest expressions of Love

to not only their ‘Love’ and loved ones…

but especially to ‘Divinity

as they resonate from within.


Our Marital Bliss Dream Teams,

Kahu’s and Ministers all come from a deep sense of

Sacred Spirit in Harmony with the Spirit of Love

while integrating Hawaiian Culture with reverence and respect

through the perspectives of

~ Pono ~

To always do the Right thing for the greater good of all.

You are Blessed the with Joy of

sharing the most important part

of being a Human… and that’s Love.

 

Love is a mystery that defies science.

In science, the total of anything can only be

the sum of its parts.

But in Love…

The Boundless Bliss of Love

is exponentially greater than the sum of its parts.

 

Love is not a

materialist[c object…

It has no substance,

As such,

It can not be effected by materialist challenges of this world 

nor harsh behaviors of ego driven dramas.

 

Love is the Essential Part of our True Nature…

The Ground of our Being.

And to Abide in Love Is to connect with the

Natural Spirit of our True Nature.

Through the volition of One’s Higher Calling…

the Fulfillment of one’s Being manifests.

Being in the service for the Greater Good

is a natural progress to this endeavor.

True Love opens hearts, which lead to opening doors

towards a depth of Love that is beyond measure.

 

Behind every good man or woman is… the partner that is 

the wind beneath their wings.

You will both learn naturally a way of Being

that’s bigger than just you…

With the joining life as a couple… There is now 

the Greater Good of …

Us.

 

Take this sacred gift of unconditional love for each other,

and expand your circles of embrace

and acceptance towards an ever-widening circle of unconditional love…

and from that,

Your love will indeed

make the world a better place.

Sailing encourages a personal spiritual experience. 
Sailing towards the endless horizons creates a sacred space 
and inspires one personal spirit! 
 
You go with the flow of the winds and waves 
in harmony with a timeless sense of contemplation. 
Within this sacred space, 
we experience a connectedness to ourselves and everything. 
 
All the sensations involved when a good sailing groove is flowing 
invokes a profound sense of reverie. 
We seem to connect with a feeling that we are 
an inseparable connection to something much bigger than we can realize.
There is a blissfully natural flow that flows like a wave. 
To catch a wave, 
you need to swim into the right place. 
If you put too much effort, 
you will break past and lose the wave. 
But it will pass you by if you don’t put in enough effort. 
 
Once in the groove, 
no effort is required just like in meditation. 
Sailing makes it easy to surrender to nautical bliss. 
You find peace and freedom and let go of your anxieties.
The deepest contemplative mediation tradition is called Vipassana. 
It is an in-depth practice that integrates focused concentration  
with the insights of self-realization through a mindful mediation of awareness. 
 
Most Spiritual seekers of Vipassana seek out a retreat in nature, 
where the concerns of modern life are left behind 
so that one can immerse themselves in the flow of life. 
 
When we had our sailing catamaran Chat d’O 
Life aboard flowed like our very own SeaPassana.
 
Treat yourself to your SeaPassana Sailing Retreat anytime you are on a body water… 
anywhere. 
Awaken the direct awakening of the personal spirit. 
Feel a connection to what makes this life have meaning 
while in the groove of a flow that effortlessly feels right!
We all know the words “go with the flow.” 
It’s commonly understood to do something ‘Zenfully’, calmly and steadily. 
The only constant in this life is change. It’s called the Tao… The ‘Way’. 
There is a flow to this change, 
so find it and ride it. 
Sailing is a great way to do that.

Our Sailing Adventures

We voyaged throughout the south pacific

on our sailboat Hipnautical for nearly four years,

then moved to Maui. A decade later…

For 5 years, we lived the dream of the sailing life once more

on our new boat, Chat d’O.

We spent those years sailing all around Maui, Molokai, Molokini, Lanai , Oahu, Kauai,

and even Niihau.

Six months before the Lahaina fire, we settled into Mala.

We had a groovy grove going on there…

Safe dingy tie ups in just about all weather…

Bobbie Jo joined the Lahaina Arts society 

and easily took the short stroll to fair at the Cannery

on most Fridays & Saturdays…

We’d catch a bus to do west side weddings and did a lot of Baby Beach Weddings

very close to where we land our dingy…

That all changed on Aug 8th 2023.

The boat and crew survived the 80 to 100+ knot winds and the devastating fire…

Most of the flames were not directly up wind.

We spent over a month sailing and anchoring around Maui to Molokai…

Before settling into the south Maui Sugar beach areas…

We were offered a charming cottage by our friends so we could re-establish our Luv Biz…

Maui Marrying Man

 

For over a year, 

I swam out to the boat for a week, every two weeks of land life.

The boat finally sold, 

and we are both grateful for surviving over 37,000 sailing miles. 

The Sailing Adventures were a Dream Come True and now…

grateful to be safely back on land. 

Moments in Our Sailing Experiences

Watch videos of the views we captured from our boat. 

We’ve recorded all the places we have visited.

 

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Sail boat zoomed in with the text saying about Maui Marrying Man
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At Maui Marrying Man

Our goal is to make your wedding day as special and memorable as possible, 

ensuring that every detail reflects your love story and dreams.

Extensive Wedding Wisdoms and Resources

From marriage licenses to 

hair & makeup, photography, videography, location scouting, 

and much more.

 

Our vast expertise and experience instills a confidence that allows you to be completely worry free… 

so you can ‘Hang Loose’ and enjoy

Maui Marital Bliss! 

😉

 

 

A Youthful Spirit and Adventurous Heart

Our team is musically inclined 

and brings a personal touch to every ceremony. 

 

We bring together the

Soul of the South Pacific with the

Spirit of Aloha

to Unite couples in the

Deepest Expression of Love

 

 We show true compassion and connectivity towards 

uniting couples in the most sacred of all unions. 

 

Universal Spirituality

We’re not just ‘Non=Denominational’…

We are Universally Spiritual.


I was born, raised, Baptised

 and Catechism‘d Catholic.

I have studied countless ‘theologies’ 

and practiced the most in-depth of all major 

‘Non-Duel’ Spiritual Traditions of Higher Consciousness

 

I found that all reasonable religions 

and spiritual traditions are essentially pointing towards the same 

ineffable Truths. 

 

I integrate all these common factors into my ‘Life Practice’ to express the Highest form of deep gratitude, respect, unconditional love and compassion with Grace. 

 

Bobbie Jo was born and raised Methodist 

and her large family made up the core of the church’s choir. 

She has performed music at weddings for many decades. 

If you have any sacred Scriptures that you would like to 

integrate into your ceremony… We are happy to make it so… 

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I understand there are some denominations 

that do not share this ‘universal‘ commonality… 

some believe that only their version of religion 

is the only viable one and has 

nothing in common with any of the others. 

If your ‘faith’ requires a Minister that shares your 

exclusive non-inclusive perspectives… 

All good… We want you to be comfortable. 

Simply request one of our Ministers that are on that same ‘level’.  

Experience Unconditional Aloha

Maui Marrying Man owner

Your Dream Maui Beach Wedding Awaits!

We will make you feel right at home

on our tropical island paradise!

Let us plan your dream beach wedding in Hawaii

and help you live the Dream. 


Reach out to us now to get started.

(808) 494-4803


 roger@mauimarryingman.com

 

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The Start of 2020

Our business was doing great, but we still couldn’t afford to buy a house or a condo. Renting in Maui for another 30 years was not an option we wanted to take. Then, Bobbie Jo suggested we buy a sailboat that is comfortable to cruise and live in. By the end of January, we started looking for our new home.

After a long search, we found our dream boat in Mazatlan, Mexico. COVID-19 was not yet a concern when our boat hunt began, but masks were starting to appear at airports by the time we flew to Mazatlan. Originally, we had planned to get the boat ready as fast as possible to cover a full calendar for the busy wedding season. However, it was apparent our business was going to tank amid the pandemic, and the struggle went on until the end of the year.

Luckily, we scored an awesome condo for only $19 a day at Mazatlan. On the 10th day of our stay, we received the news that all harbors will be closed the next Monday morning. We thought we’d be stuck in Mexico longer, but another sailor advised us to leave before sunrise.

We felt the adrenalin of escaping the Mexican harbor master just before the sun rose that faithful day. The seas were rough as waves were building up in the tight channel that led us to the open ocean. We ended up anchored off an adorable little isle just a mile offshore. We enjoyed cruising to many spectacular anchorages and cute villages on our way to Puerto Vallarta, where we would depart for Maui on May 7. On May 30, 2020, we completed our 24-day passage from Mexico to Maui.