Women Fighting in the Olympics

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I was inspired to write this piece after reading a post

about how absurd it is that some people are turned off by

women fighting in the Olympics

Yet,

Yet they don’t seem to raise their collective voices about the

horrendous abuse women endure from domestic violence

At first, I was like

Yea man, right on.

But

Then, as began to write a comment

 with that perspective

It dawned on me

Yea,

fucking right! 

That, yes, collectively  

we don’t give a shit about a lot of things

We don’t give a shit about senseless gun violence and

Certainly women getting abused

And,

I can tell you,

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 I personally know a gal that became a 10th black belt, then later became a ‘Master’…

just so she could defend herself and their two kids.

She became ready, willing, and able to take this guy out

But,

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Other bad guys got to him first.

He died miserably in the desert sun

 after being injected with a lethal dose of bleach.

But,

Not everyone’s story ends with such a nice fairy tale enchanting ways

Sure,

None of those challenges are

Flattering for humanity…

But then

That’s life.

It’s often harsh.

So,

Why would we even want to be in a sport that

it’s sole purpose is to damage someone else?

And,

Know that the training one undertakes to master

many various marshal art forms train one to be

completely capable of taking someone out

in just a very short well placed moves

One would have to be an enlightened monk

to maintain the equanimity to kill

 without effecting one’s well-being

But,

Most of us are not enlightened warrior monks.

We will have bad dreams.

And,

When we wake up

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We’ll go through our waking hours with this dark cloud

But,

To an aspiring warrior monk

It’s all part of the practice

And it becomes exciting.

An additive adrenalin rush

But

Practically

Those monks will abide in the dark side of humanity

With the hopes it will force their attention to become so

one-pointed

That this will help manifest the next higher stage of consciousness

The Flow states

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These Jhana states of higher conscious

will offer the Insights through long practice of

post after glow contemplations

Since,

No thinking is possible during these Insight meditations

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The Buddha stated that one can achieve the final fruition of the Path

By

any skillful means.

I find that training to be competent in killing

Is a defilement and a detriment to abiding in Loving Kindness.

The final states of consciousness a human can achieve

involves the complete surrender to

love

Love is

Ineffable.

Love becomes the objectiveless object of meditationâ

When from your first sit

Most focus on their breath.

~

You may deepen that awareness with the breath’s subtle aspects

 of the energy that flows into and out of our being

Prana

Chi- or Qi

Focus your awareness on the energetic sensations of prana

as it flows through your various chakras

Have fun with that

But,

When the Practice deepens

There comes a point when

It seems natural to drop the effort to stay one pointed on the breath

A

Materialistic, object

That keeps the mind from straying

At a certain point

This requirement for ‘effort dissolves floats away.

~

You sincerely let go, surrender … and float off

As if a cosmic raft is effortlessly taking you

Away.

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Look

If you find yourself requiring a lethal marshal arts training

Then,

You life must already be a nightmare of chaos

Or

Your challenges require such training

Then,

it is … what it is

If your calling is fulfilled with such trainings

Then,

You will likely feel inspired to follow those desires.

But,

For everybody else

Practice meditation

Not training to kill.

Use the qi (chi) as an effective object of meditation

Not

So you can flatter your ego and break things

Sooo childishly naïve.

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The Start of 2020

Our business was doing great, but we still couldn’t afford to buy a house or a condo. Renting in Maui for another 30 years was not an option we wanted to take. Then, Bobbie Jo suggested we buy a sailboat that is comfortable to cruise and live in. By the end of January, we started looking for our new home.

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