8 Guidance for Eternal Marital Bliss

Difference between love and attachment

The Distinction Between Love and Attachment in Personal Relationships

Zenfully Quool Quotes by my Mentor… Av Neryah ~ Love and attachment could not be more different; they’re at opposite ends of the spectrum. In a relationship, true love is about experiencing oneness with the other. This genuine love nurtures and supports without clinging, allowing each person to flourish while simultaneously being part of an unseparated […]

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Spiritual Meditation. Couple sitting on the beach meditating

Does a loving relationship aid in spiritual growth, or is it a hindrance?

Zenfully Quool Quotes by my Mentor… Av Neryah ~ In the dynamics of the human experience, relationships serve as a fantastic arena where we face both the joys of love and the challenges of conflict, all of which can shape our identities and the way we approach life. They have the power to reveal our

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Development of wisdom

The Simple Solution to Marital Distress – Part 5

“The development of Wisdom”. Though right concentration claims the last place among the factors of the Noble Eightfold Path, concentration itself does not mark the path’s culmination. The attainment of concentration makes the mind still and steady, unifies its concomitants, opens vast vistas of bliss, serenity, and power. But by itself it does not suffice

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Wisdom is the primary tool for deliverance

The Simple Solution to Marital Distress – Part 4

“Right Effort” The power of sustained concentration, itself required as the support for insight-wisdom. Wisdom is the primary tool for deliverance, but the penetrating vision it yields can only open up when the mind has been composed and collected. Right concentration brings the requisite stillness to the mind by unifying it with undistracted focus on

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Buddha sitting down on a rock as the sun sets

The Simple Solution to Marital Distress – Part 3

Buddha’s Noble Eight-Fold Path – Integrate Right View and Right Intention with “Right speech, Right Action, and Right Livelihood” Before you speak or act out, ask yourself, “Am I coming from a perspective of loving kindness?” Or Am I trying to sound good, impress someone, mislead or lie. In pursuit of Right Livelihood Strive for

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The Simple Solution to Marital Distress – Part 2

The Simple Solution to Marital Distress – Part 2

In an open minded non-denominational light, there are some profound Truths to be found in all Spiritual traditions. If one’s inspiration is capable of only one single spiritual perspective… then this Christian philosophical statement would be a guiding light for all: It is written that Jesus said: ~~~~~~~~~~~ When one is inspired to go Deeper

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The Simple Solution to Marital Distress – Part 1

The Simple Solution to Marital Distress – Part 1

Most of the issues in life, we choose to martyr ourselves unnecessarily in pain & suffering. The solution can be found in – Basic Buddhism 101 – Prerequisite – Unconditional Love. To gain a deeper understanding of Buddhism, Contemplate the titles of the Buddha’s Noble Eight-Fold Path. Scroll down the page and Click on a

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couple sitting together thinking about the future

Medicine‘ for a ‘Mid Life Wife Crises’ or a ‘Groom of Doom Syndrome’

Couples Mid-Marriage Inspirations  Often when the excitement of the ‘Honeymoon’ fades into the background of our everyday busy lives… It often feels like there’s a bit of not being appreciated as much as when there was a ‘hot pursuit of love’. Most folks mistake their True Self to be their egos which will hijack an

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Husband holding his wife after getting married

Premarital considerations for Eternal Marital Bliss

Sit with pen, paper, keyboard Even a voice recorder or just video record your voice on your phone … Describe Each of Your Realistic Personal Dreams And, The Dreams and plans of Life Together… Prepare the beginnings of a Personal Journal The writings one lays down helps to solidify ones understanding, Then By expanding upon

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The Start of 2020

Our business was doing great, but we still couldn’t afford to buy a house or a condo. Renting in Maui for another 30 years was not an option we wanted to take. Then, Bobbie Jo suggested we buy a sailboat that is comfortable to cruise and live in. By the end of January, we started looking for our new home.

After a long search, we found our dream boat in Mazatlan, Mexico. COVID-19 was not yet a concern when our boat hunt began, but masks were starting to appear at airports by the time we flew to Mazatlan. Originally, we had planned to get the boat ready as fast as possible to cover a full calendar for the busy wedding season. However, it was apparent our business was going to tank amid the pandemic, and the struggle went on until the end of the year.

Luckily, we scored an awesome condo for only $19 a day at Mazatlan. On the 10th day of our stay, we received the news that all harbors will be closed the next Monday morning. We thought we’d be stuck in Mexico longer, but another sailor advised us to leave before sunrise.

We felt the adrenalin of escaping the Mexican harbor master just before the sun rose that faithful day. The seas were rough as waves were building up in the tight channel that led us to the open ocean. We ended up anchored off an adorable little isle just a mile offshore. We enjoyed cruising to many spectacular anchorages and cute villages on our way to Puerto Vallarta, where we would depart for Maui on May 7. On May 30, 2020, we completed our 24-day passage from Mexico to Maui.