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Difference between love and attachment

The Distinction Between Love and Attachment in Personal Relationships

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Zenfully Quool Quotes by my Mentor… Av Neryah ~ Love and attachment could not be more different; they’re at opposite ends of the spectrum. In a relationship, true love is about experiencing oneness with the other. This genuine love nurtures and supports without clinging, allowing each person to flourish while simultaneously being part of an unseparated

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The Simple Solution to Marital Distress – Part 2

The Simple Solution to Marital Distress – Part 2

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In an open minded non-denominational light, there are some profound Truths to be found in all Spiritual traditions. If one’s inspiration is capable of only one single spiritual perspective… then this Christian philosophical statement would be a guiding light for all: It is written that Jesus said: ~~~~~~~~~~~ When one is inspired to go Deeper

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The Simple Solution to Marital Distress – Part 1

The Simple Solution to Marital Distress – Part 1

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Most of the issues in life, we choose to martyr ourselves unnecessarily in pain & suffering. The solution can be found in – Basic Buddhism 101 – Prerequisite – Unconditional Love. To gain a deeper understanding of Buddhism, Contemplate the titles of the Buddha’s Noble Eight-Fold Path https://mauimarryingman.com/category/buddhas-noble-eight-fold-path Scroll down the page and Click on

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‘Medicine‘ for a ‘Mid Life Wife Crises’ or a ‘Groom of Doom Syndrome’

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Couples Mid-Marriage Inspirations  Often when the excitement of the Honeymoon fades into the background of our everyday busy lives It often feels like there’s a bit of not being appreciated as much as when there was a hot pursuit of love. Most folks mistake their True Self to be their egos which will hijack an

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Premarital considerations for Eternal Marital Bliss

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Sit with pen, paper, keyboard… Even a voice recorder or just video record your voice on your phone. Describe Each of Your Realistic Personal Dreams And, The Dreams and plans of Life Together Prepare the beginnings of a Personal Journal The writings one lays down helps to solidify ones understanding, Then By expanding upon with

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Spiritual Guidance for Eternal Marital Bliss

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For most Spiritual traditions particularly the Spiritual philosophies of Buddhism, Zen, Advaita Vedanta, Tibetan Bon, Dzogchen And Even at the Sacred Heart of Christianity There is an appreciation of the present moment The most Meaningful experiences in our lives Can only occur in the ever-present moment The Four Tibetan Immeasurable Virtues of Unconditional Love, Joy,

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Your Dream Maui Beach Wedding Awaits!

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The Start of 2020

Our business was doing great, but we still couldn’t afford to buy a house or a condo. Renting in Maui for another 30 years was not an option we wanted to take. Then, Bobbie Jo suggested we buy a sailboat that is comfortable to cruise and live in. By the end of January, we started looking for our new home.

After a long search, we found our dream boat in Mazatlan, Mexico. COVID-19 was not yet a concern when our boat hunt began, but masks were starting to appear at airports by the time we flew to Mazatlan. Originally, we had planned to get the boat ready as fast as possible to cover a full calendar for the busy wedding season. However, it was apparent our business was going to tank amid the pandemic, and the struggle went on until the end of the year.

Luckily, we scored an awesome condo for only $19 a day at Mazatlan. On the 10th day of our stay, we received the news that all harbors will be closed the next Monday morning. We thought we’d be stuck in Mexico longer, but another sailor advised us to leave before sunrise.

We felt the adrenalin of escaping the Mexican harbor master just before the sun rose that faithful day. The seas were rough as waves were building up in the tight channel that led us to the open ocean. We ended up anchored off an adorable little isle just a mile offshore. We enjoyed cruising to many spectacular anchorages and cute villages on our way to Puerto Vallarta, where we would depart for Maui on May 7. On May 30, 2020, we completed our 24-day passage from Mexico to Maui.