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33 – FRUITION – 15th stage of Insights

Fruition ( phala in Pali ) is the fruit of all the meditator’s hard work, the first attainment of ultimate reality, emptiness, nirvana, nibbana, ultimate potential, or whatever extrapolative and relatively inaccurate name you wish to call something utterly non – sensate. ~~` In this non – state, there is absolutely no time, no space,

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The Deep End

17 Along The Deep End of the Spiritual Path Is The Progress of Spiritual Insights

Just about everyone, at some point in their life, has contemplated… “The meaning of lifeâ€. Along with how their life fits into… ‘The timeless wonder of it all’. Who am I really… in the grand scheme of it all? Is there a God? Do we have a soul or eternalness that preceded this life and

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Meaning of life

The Misleading Use Of ‘Purpose’ When Defining One’s Life

I hear a lot of people that are attempting to seek a meaning of life  and connect it with a Spiritual sounding name like: Your “purpose†in life is… To grow tulips. Frolic in nature. Be an artist, or musician, or race car driver, or… As if… If you don’t fulfill your purpose in life…

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Buddha in a deep meditation

THE THREE CHARACTERISTICS – 3rd Insight Stage

Impermanence, unsatisfactoriness, and no-self. It becomes more obvious that all the constituents of our experience are quickly arising and passing, somewhat jarring, and not particularly in our control or to be identified with as “meâ€. Further, as these sensations are all observed, including the crude mental impression that follows them (“consciousnessâ€), it becomes clear the

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Fear of the dark

FEAR – 6th Stage of Insights – Part 2 of THE DARK NIGHT

The clarity and intensity begin to return, but now the stage of Fear can involve all sorts of frightening distortions of perception when sitting, accompanied by intense feelings of unease, paranoia, terror, dread, and/or “the williesâ€. It can even sometimes seem that our body is falling in tatters through the floor or that we are

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The Start of 2020

Our business was doing great, but we still couldn’t afford to buy a house or a condo. Renting in Maui for another 30 years was not an option we wanted to take. Then, Bobbie Jo suggested we buy a sailboat that is comfortable to cruise and live in. By the end of January, we started looking for our new home.

After a long search, we found our dream boat in Mazatlan, Mexico. COVID-19 was not yet a concern when our boat hunt began, but masks were starting to appear at airports by the time we flew to Mazatlan. Originally, we had planned to get the boat ready as fast as possible to cover a full calendar for the busy wedding season. However, it was apparent our business was going to tank amid the pandemic, and the struggle went on until the end of the year.

Luckily, we scored an awesome condo for only $19 a day at Mazatlan. On the 10th day of our stay, we received the news that all harbors will be closed the next Monday morning. We thought we’d be stuck in Mexico longer, but another sailor advised us to leave before sunrise.

We felt the adrenalin of escaping the Mexican harbor master just before the sun rose that faithful day. The seas were rough as waves were building up in the tight channel that led us to the open ocean. We ended up anchored off an adorable little isle just a mile offshore. We enjoyed cruising to many spectacular anchorages and cute villages on our way to Puerto Vallarta, where we would depart for Maui on May 7. On May 30, 2020, we completed our 24-day passage from Mexico to Maui.